Money Monday: Sticky floors

by Sara on January 31, 2011

In January and February I’m participating in a Shopping Embargo, hosted by Andrea at a peek inside the fishbowl.

The embargo is about

“saving money but it is also about examining my family’s needs and wants, and abstaining from buying things we don’t really need. The point is to think about the things we buy and why we buy them” (read Andrea’s 2011 Shopping Embargo post here)

Visit my first Shopping Embargo post to read more about my plans.

One month into the Shopping Embargo and I’m enjoying it.  Yes, yes, shake your heads in bewilderment.   

I like challenges.  And even though I’m not a recreational or compulsive spender, I like feeling more in control of the little money we do manage to hold onto. 

I feel like our first month was a success.  We had three ‘big’ purchases (its all relative folks):

  • Bedding for the monkey ($80): it was a planned purchase after moving into our new house in June, it just took 6 months for us to find something he (we) loved!
  • A new wardrobe for my shrinking self ($300): I have lost almost 40 pounds and discovered having only two pairs of pants was no longer feasible.
  • A new mop ($100): A $100 mop!?!? Actually, it is a Shark steam cleaner for our floors.  We had to put our 11 year old dog to sleep at the beginning of January.  Since then I’ve discovered he was entirely responsible for the cleanliness of the floors on the main level of our house.  He must have had a gut of steel for the amount of food and liquid he put away everyday.  Our two year old mop, which I used light-heartedly every week to get what the dog didn’t, was threadbare and I needed something powerful to get rid of the ‘stick’.  I opted for the steam mop because we have sealed hardwood and ceramic tile and I wanted something that would clean my floors without harsh cleaners or leave a residue behind.  Plus I love how quickly the floors dry afterwards!

Because I love lists, here are my ‘goals’ for the embargo: 

  • Cut our discretionary spending by 10%:  We have two discretionary budgets in our household: one for annual variable spending (lessons, clothes, birthday parties, gifts etc.) and another for monthly variable spending (alcohol, groceries, entertainment, kids etc).  We spent 8.55% of our annual budget this month instead of the 8.3% average.  Had I not broken out in an unexplained rash and hives we would have stayed under.  $100 at Shoppers Drug Mart for lotions, creams, and OTC drugs broke the bank.  For our monthly variable spending we only used 82% of our budget.  At the end of the month we end up with a few extra hundred dollars to pad our bank account.  Success!
  • Bake snacks instead of buying them: My poor oven is begging for mercy.  Muffins, cookies, and home-cooked meals galore. The only store-bought snacks I still buy are Arrowroot biscuits, raisins, and fruit leather. 
  • Make homemade / creative gifts for family and friends (I promise, I will not try to knit you anything):We are in the process of making Valentine’s cards for 43 children.  There were no birthdays in January but February is a doozy.  Not only do several family members have birthdays but my 4 year old firefighter will be 5 (insert weep here). 
  • Find fun (and free) activities and entertainment for our family:  We took advantage of our museum memberships, were given free tickets to the Sesame Street Live show, played outside in the snow, and spent $23 to bowl (for an hour) with friends. 

February’s Challenge

Birthday’s are a big deal in our house.  We usually have two parties: one for friends and another for family.  Excessive?  Probably.  Tons of fun? Most definitely.

We are still going to have both parties but I’m going to ask family members to contribute to a potluck meal for one party and for the fire-fighter’s friends, we’re going to have the party at home. 

Here’s where I need your help!  The firefighter is going to be 5.  I feel no need to stick to a theme so I’d like to hear your best (CHEAP) birthday party entertainment ideas.  We won’t serve a meal to the kids, just snacks and a (homemade) cake.  I’d love to do an art and craft and play some games.

And there will be no loot bags: Not because I’m cheap but because I’ve yet to find loot bag contents that aren’t junky.  There will be around 12 kids, ages two to five, both boys and girls.

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Jennie January 31, 2011 at 8:25 am

For my 5 turned 6 year old’s birthday her are a few of the things that I did to try and keep costs down, and keep my sanity(single mom plus house full of boys, not good)
1) The length of the party was only an hour and a half.
2)His b-day is in December so our craft was decorating gingerbread houses. ($10 worth of candy, $4 of royal icing, a $1store cake decorator pre-filled with icing for each)
3)Instead of a cake I made cupcakes and let them decorate them with the left over candy
4)I bought a $10 bag of “lego” candy and let them build stuff with it.

That all brought us to the end of the party, where everyone got to take home their leftover candy and a gingerbread house(as lootbags)

I didn’t decorate, since the house was already done for Christmas. My sis and I both have Christmas season b-day and never minded the decorations or wrapping paper crossover as long as the celebrations were separate.
Hope this helps.

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Sara January 31, 2011 at 1:51 pm

I’m with you on the decorations…as in, I won’t put them up ;) We decorate like crazy for all the holidays, including Valentine’s, St. Patrick’s Day, and Easter. I’ll spring for balloons :)

Love the lego candy idea and decorating something they get to take home. And the party length is perfect: we have gift-free parties, which means filling 2 hours can be difficult, unless there are lots of activities.

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DaniGirl January 31, 2011 at 11:43 am

Cheap and excellent loot bag alternative = burn a CD for each guest with a playlist of some of his favourite songs. We’ve done this for the boys before and get repeat requests!

For loot bags at yesterday’s (not cheap but super fun) party at Putting Edge, I gave each kid a small popcorn bag (on sale at Loblaws for $1 for 10!) with a Mighty Beans keychain ($1.89 ea at Party Packagers), one small playdoh left over from Halloween giveaways, one bite-sized choco bar and some silly banz (Boxing Day score at Home Sense for $1.80 for 100 of them! Will last through both big-boy parties this year!) Total cost per kid was less than $3 and IMHO not filled with crap.

In short — inexpensive and not-crap loot bags are possible!

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Sara January 31, 2011 at 1:53 pm

Is Taio Cruz appropriate for 5 year olds? Dynamite is his favourite song ;) Maybe some Jack Johnson, Glee, and Bobs & LoLo!

I have never heard of Mighty Beans – will go check them out. Love the playdoh idea and the small chocolate bar. The Silly Banz are a great idea too.

Now I feel inspired to source out cool loot bags with fun, not crap, items. Thanks Dani! I always love a good challenge…

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Kate January 31, 2011 at 1:52 pm

What about something like pin the tail on the donkey.. or if you are feeling creative enough, pin the ladder on the fire truck! Decorating their own cupcakes sounds like fun as well. Also you could try something like twister with them. I am sure they would all end up in a giggling pile. Decorating party hats to wear… Hot potatoe with a present, play music and when it stops who ever has it gets to take a layer of wrapping paper off. Keep going until the end where there is a little surprise for one or all of the kids. I could keep going Sara, not sure if these are the type of things you are looking for.

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Sara January 31, 2011 at 1:55 pm

Pin the tail on anything…maybe a moving target…

I like decorating treats – time consuming & makes them more fun to eat! And I hadn’t even thought of twister or hot potato. Gosh, are you volunteering to come help with the party !?!

I’m only half kidding. Sort of. We’ve realized that our no-gift policy works really well for us but means we’re left with half an hour to fill at parties.

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Kristin @ Peace, Love and Muesli January 31, 2011 at 3:21 pm

I keep my eyes out at Chapters and Indigo and try to get activity books when they are on sale for $2-3 to give as loot bags.
My 6yo was at a party yesterday, they decorated picture frames, the parents took a pic of the birthday girl with each kid, printed the pics and put them in the frame. That was the loot bag, with a candy necklace. Kinda up your alley.
I am all about buying the right tool for dreadful house cleaning jobs.

And knitting is cool!

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Sara February 1, 2011 at 7:55 am

I love those workbooks! When I work in the afternoons, DS can entertain himself with those for at least 30-40 minutes. Seeing as I’m a photographer, decorating a picture frame would be particularly up my alley ;)

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Shan @ the fairyblogmother January 31, 2011 at 9:30 pm

My daughter just turned 5 a couple of weeks ago and for her party she had some friends over to watch Despicable Me. I printed out some Despicable Me colouring pages and left them on the coffee table with some crayons. By the time we watched the movie and had cake there was about 30 minutes left and they spent it playing in the toyroom. For gift bags we wrapped up a storybook for each kid with some silly bandz attached to it. She loved it.

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Sara February 1, 2011 at 7:57 am

Silly bandz have been mentioned a few times. DS has only 1 (its a house full of boys, what can I say), which he loves. Its an elephant and his best friend game it to him. I like the book suggestions too – we’re big readers around here so it appeals to my educational side

Ps We watched Despicable Me for the 2nd time last week – such a great movie!

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Karen January 31, 2011 at 10:45 pm

My mom made oatmeal cookies on a popsicle stick… They looked like big lolipops.. But healthier. We all decorated our cookie and took them home in lieu of loot bags. She bought paper lunch bags and decorated them with stickers to tote home our cookies. During the party we played simple party games… I have a very long list if your are interested… You could make a batch of homemade playdough…

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Sara February 1, 2011 at 7:58 am

I was just thinking “but I hate those little plastic bags”! Brown paper bags are perfect! I’m an excellent baker so I could definitely make homemade treats – pretty sure none of the kids coming have any food allergies. Everyone has such great ideas. I won’t have to do a stitch of planning when DS2′s birthday rolls around in May :)

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andrea from the fishbowl February 1, 2011 at 9:08 am

I have mostly dispensed with the lootbags. As a parent I kind of hate them. They’re mostly cheap and junky, and they stick around for ages. Don’t get me started on crappy dollar store pencils and candy. But I do like to give the children a little item as a thank you.

In past years we’ve decorated cupcakes which are then sent home, made picture frames (which we send home with a photo of DD and friend) and repotted spring plants. :) As the girls get older I have been wrapping very small gifts for the kids to bring home: a jacob’s ladder, a tiny Playmobil set, a sketchbook etc.

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Sara February 1, 2011 at 5:16 pm

Oh the pencils. They make me crazy!! DS loves them and I can never find a sharpener.

I like the idea of something related to photography or art – a frame, or picture – that they can take home afterwards.

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Lynn February 2, 2011 at 1:06 pm

I’m also a fan of one-big-thing in the loot bag, rather than a bunch of small things. I usually use plain coloured gift bags from the dollar store, and fill them with a small Lego set or Playmobil set (you can get great ones for cheap at the PlayValue on Carling). Add in a craft that they did at the party and a balloon, and you’re all set.

Here’s a link to my post on a fairly cheap at-home celebration we did when my son turned seven:
http://diaryofaturtlehead.wordpress.com/2010/03/08/lets-get-this-party-started/

At the party we did a craft (making parachutes for Lego men, which gave them endless entertainment dropping them off the top of the stairs), then decorated our own cupcakes (also a great time filler), then we watched a Lego movie. Anyone who didn’t want to watch the movie did colouring or dot-to-dots at the table that I printed off the internet.

We also played a very popular game, where one kid had to wear a picture on their head (we taped it to a baseball hat), then ask questions about who they were – am I a boy? am I a robot? Do I have fur? – to figure out who they were. Then the kids got to keep the picture of the person they were, and they loved that – it was as good as a toy. For my son’s birthday we did all Star Wars characters because seven-year-old boys are into that. For my daughter’s, we did Disney characters – I can send you my file to print if you like.

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Sara February 2, 2011 at 2:27 pm

LOVE the Lego man parachutes!!! And the gift bags are gorgeous. I like the idea of putting one thing in a bag, especially one of those little Playmobil sets. We’re huge Playmobil and Lego fans in the house but I’m partial to Playmobil after growing up with it :)

I’m actually looking forward to when the boys are a bit older and we can do more complicated activities and games during the party. I keep thinking, it must be easier then, right ;)

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